To choose yes is to acknowledge that you are always at choice and that you make a choice to say yes to a journey of self-love and discovery. This is such a statement of power. The exploration of personal development is not for the weary. It is humbling to look in the mirror for the purpose of growth. And, it is here where we observe what gets us excited about life, it is here where we decide who and what we will give our time and attention to and what attitudes and behaviors are outdated, what no longer serves the larger vision for our lives and what will be done different today.
Choosing “Yes” can be a moment by moment decision and as we keep practicing, observing and being the witness, it becomes easier and easier to stay in alignment with the people and circumstances where we feel like we are in the flow of life.
A lot of times we use the phrase “I have to”. I have to go to work, pick up the kids, make dinner… the list goes on and on. What if instead we said, “I get to”. As though it was a choice that we have said yes to. There is so much power and personal responsibility in saying yes or no and meaning it, and we are always at choice. We are not bound or chained to any person, situation, commitment, or chore. We have a choice and to be in alignment with our choices, to feel good about the choices we are making, is to make good use of the free will that we all have.
Remember Jess? She was in the midst of a Transformation when she decided to leave her marriage. Jess said “Yes” to a larger vision for her life. To growth and expansion in ways she knew were possible and had yet to experience. Her vision and the “Yes” to the vision- to believe and then see, is exactly what she did. Jess left an unfulfilled marriage to rise up to meet a vision she knew was possible. Today she is happily remarried to an incredible man, her coaching business is thriving, she has a beautiful home, amazing step-children and a life that she had imagined was possible. She is living her dream and helping other people find theirs. And, because she consciously uncoupled, she also kept her friendship with her ex-husband and they continue to run their previous transaction management business together. She turned impossible into absolutely…
There are no limitations. We are not bound by anything other than our own beliefs about what is possible. Once those thoughts, ideas, beliefs and feelings are shifted into possibility things will change. We can create, renew and restore any relationship, passion, idea, or dream. What we focus on expands, what we believe we see, what we give to grows and we absolutely do create our own reality. So, Let It percolate, Let It rise up, Let It be discovered, Let It be declared, and Let It Be So!